Most of us know that in today’s popular culture and trends, we have celebrities who are expected to fulfil certain things to satisfy audience at large without actually showing true talent behind them. The question is, why? People have wired this new trait into the human race. They want to be the number one at everything, no matter what it is. It’s just a trait that has been around for as long as human evolution has existed, but with the emergence of language and technology, not to mention the need for experimentation, we can rebuild new traits.
Male-identified celebrities try to compete and outdo one another while female-identified celebrities are constantly at the vanity spotlight. So what happens when we have some kind of overlap–the question I asked before, why is it okay for girls to be tomboys, but not okay for boys to be sissies? Let’s take Justin Biever, for instance. He may act all tough and manipulative, and people have disputed his gender and sexual identity because of the way he sang when he was little, and sometimes because of the way he sings now. So, what happened to the real Justin? His masculinity is slowly being taken away, but by whom? As a result of that, he is using his tough-guy act to cover it up. Take a look at this scenario a friend provided me with.
One day he went to the United Kingdom and while he was there, he fainted on-stage, so he went to a hospital. Well, when he got out of the hospital, he went back to his hotel to play with his Xbox or whatever, causing him to be not one, not two, but three hours late to a concert! For it must be understood that someone of his celebrity status is often paid to do a job, and with his fans being little kids or young teens, they have curfews and have school the next day. And also parents have to work hard, sometimes doing so many jobs just to afford those ridiculously overpriced tickets. Meanwhile, he gets paid millions upon millions of dollars while the hard working man barely makes enough for himself let alone for his overly-obsessed daughter with even more overly-obsessed teen heartthrob fantacies. Anyway, most people instead of waiting around for him to show up just get up and leave. Without so much as even giving an apology to those who were practically waiting around all hours of the night for him to show up to sing a few songs, he just comes in, kind of performs one or two songs and just goes home. He tries to tweet about how sorry he is on twitter so as to make people believe it’s all water under the bridge, when in all reality it most certainly isn’t. That’s one reason why I think he’s a sissy boy. He’s getting all the opportunities that people with true talent should be getting! He’s making it hard for real singers to become discovered! https://www.al.com/entertainment/2015/06/this_is_why_concerts_always_st.html and https://www.quora.com/Why-do-popular-music-performers-so-often-start-their-concerts-late are some good sites to visit. I’ve performed at a few social justice concerts, but because we were not getting any fame for it, we were always very punctual.
Now let us get onto the most obvious reason why Justin Bieber is an example of a sissy boy. Okay, so after that disastrous concert where he was booed for showing up late and rightfully so, he went back to his hotel to crash for the night, or did he? The answer to that question, the world may never know. However, what the world certainly does know is that the next day, as he was exiting the hotel, lo and behold. There were papparazzi! So they said a few words to him, he’s got his big fat body guards that are probably in all reality just as much, if not more of sissies than he is. So he told the guys to move out of the way, and as a result a fight began, all because some guy said a few words that the body guard didn’t like. The photographer wasn’t even directing his words at Bieber, and it was only after Bieber jumped out of the car did the his words become directed at Bieber. So, Justin decided to play tough by saying he’d beat the crap out of the guy who said whatever to set Justin and his crew off, and lo and behold, those body guards were basically carrying him back into the car! So basically instead of the body guards letting Justin put his money where his mouth is to prove how much of a man he really was, or rather, the lack of a man he really is, these body guards of his were yet again not only babying and spoiling him but were perpetuating his downward spiral. And that is why Justin is now in the lion’s den, and why Justin Bieber is a sissy.
I don’t know much about this interpretation. To be honest, this is beyond my scope of comprehension, so I cannot make any comments of my own. What I can say is based on what I have conducted when I researched Justin. Perhaps there are some missing points that, when added would give a person more of a mental picture as to why Justin is more of a sissy than we realise.
People who are cowards try to use fear as their biggest weapon, and that’s what most bullies do. Of course the best thing you can do is laugh it off or use verbal judo to intimidate the bully. They say if you fight back you are only giving the bully more power because they are wanting to feed on the feedback. If the bully gets no feedback they will get tired. Lois Lowry wrote in ‘Son’ where the trade master has to watch the outcome of his evil powers. If he makes a person incapable of walking, he’ll watch that person struggle to walk and it’ll be like some kind of food to this creature. If he is unable to see this, he’ll get hungrier and hungrier because he needs to feed on this power. The same goes for bullies. They want results to give them more energy.
Update: I once met someone who had previously lived in terrible conditions for the majority of their life, and after they’ve been liberated, this person joined a band that plays popular music. Like most prospective celebrities I’ve heard of, this person gradually became more and more narcicistic over a period of time. Then they start acting like a total hypocrit by first preaching that we should all be grateful for what life has given us, and then they’d turn around and accuse you of being envious of their life or whatever. Who in their sane mind would say or do such a thing? It’s just completely abserd to me.
I have never appreciated how guys use their clever tactics to impress the girls by acting all tough and or girly. That’s not real and honest mating. How do other animals mate? How do humans in other parts of the world mate? I’ll cover that in another post.